I set up my personal remote control on slingbox but I can't seem to get it the show. Slingbox's remote is the only one that shows. How can I get mine and not slingbox's.?
You have to use the standalone version of Slingplayer and use the Slingbox > Remote Control menu option
You need to make sure that the audio and video source is a compatible one as well.
Help finding your video source in the Slingbox Setup Assistant
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