I understand that you are having issues configuring the remote control and also setting up the Internet Viewing.
In order to configure the remote you can use a similar model from the list (since the one you have is not showing). I encourage you to check the following post, therefore you can retrieve the instructions on how to set up the remote.
Regarding the Internet Viewing setup, even though the router you have is not listed, you can always enable this setting manually without entering that information. Please, check the links below to receive the information needed:
If you still require more information, make sure to include the make and model of the devices so we can better assist you.